How to Write a Compelling Senior Dating Profile that Works
The first step to approach senior dating is to write an effective dating profile that actually works, so I'd like to show you how to do it properly. You should totally take some notes now.
1. Know exactly what kind of person you are looking for on a senior dating site.
Law of Attraction is real - you have to know what you want before you can get it because the Universe will only give you things and people that can match your vibration energy. Even if you don't believe in any woo-woo stuff, you can look at the situation in this way: When you want to make something great happen, you must have a blueprint in the first place, right? That blueprint has to include a specific goal. When goals are specific enough, you are more likely to achieve your goals. That is science.
Therefore, you would be well-advised to clarify exactly what you are looking for, e.g. Are you looking for a long-term partner? Do you want to get married? Are you happy with a short-term companion? What is the ideal profession of this person? What should this person look like? What personality does this individual have?
No, this isn't wishful thinking. It's about feeling the good emotions and having the right expectations before something wonderful can happen in your life. Once you've clarified what kind of person you want, your senior dating profile should be written in a way that appeals to your target audience. Hopefully this makes sense.
2. Don't tell them who you are; show them who you are!
A mediocre dating profile looks like this: "I'm a passionate person with many interesting hobbies. I like movies, music and sports."
In contrast, a highly effective senior dating profile looks like this: “Movies such as The Bridges of Madison County and The Reader always fascinates me. The soundtracks of these movies are also very captivating. What's more, I love dancing to the music!”
Now can you see the difference? Yes, the first profile is about telling people who he/she is, whereas the second profile is about showing people who he/she is.
Telling people who you are is a very boring approach, whilst showing people who you are is a much more engaging method, right?
3. Double down on your strengths.
Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and that's okay. It's absolutely normal! If you have some insecurities, don't mention those on your dating profile. Instead, you should totally emphasize your strengths. Please let me explain.
For example, you look much younger than your chronological age. In that case, you should upload more photos to indicate your youthful appearance!
Of course, if you'd like to show off your wealth, that's fine. I wouldn't judge you. Well, as long as you are willing to leverage your wealth in order to have more happiness in your life, it's not a problem. But you also need to know what you are dealing with - when you are showing off your wealth online, you might attract some gold-diggers. Hence, you need to have sensible judgement and effectively filter people on the free senior dating site.
4. Ask someone to proofread your senior dating profile.
Truthfully, you don't have to do this alone. You can ask someone that you can trust to proof your dating profile before you officially join a senior dating website. Sometimes it's hard to identify your own grammar and spelling mistakes, but it's always easier for someone else to correct your mistakes.
Good luck in the dating department and I definitely wish you well!